Between love and sex struggle

In human history, there are some women make a person unforgettable, after thousands of years, people still remember them, such as salome. It is said that she" as Nietzsche's deep love, appreciation by Freud, and Rilke together with". To make the three master of the people for its struggling, visible Salome charm.

But here, I don't want to review the Salome that masters be entranced history, and just want to say she pointed out a human eternal struggle, which is between love and sex in the struggle, let us have a look the viewpoint of salome:

" If the desire is a perfect gift, during which no inner conflict, then God only to such a gift for animal. People in love and didn't love between tense, whereas animals can only perceive that erotogenesis physiological law, animal sex expression is warm, free, come very naturally, only we can have an idea."

But Salome forgetting the fact, humans are from ordinary animals evolved in humans, humans become before, even after a long period of time, they live in fact the animal that life.

I think Salome is raised such a question: if you won't get any real punishment, not condemned by the moral, won't hurt anyone, not in conscience uneasy, you will be as much as possible and you like heterosexual intimacy? For this problem, I think only dishonest and soul so pure talent would firmly say no.

Since most people to the above question to answer is YES, then the people between love and sex struggle resulting from it, most people would prefer a warm, free sex, come very naturally, but also eager to eternal love. Remain free performance bring people physical pleasure, but if their loved ones also remain free, if you still care about her ( him), will be deeply hurt, but everything has an exception.

" The unbearable lightness of being" in Thomas and Sabin 's relationship, can say the most close to the Shaermei said that" freedom come very naturally, warm," "animal", the two of them are in love and sexual values and awareness level is reached consistent, the two of them don't believe in eternal love, or they do not care about this issue, so that they will no longer be eager to eternal love, together everyone happy, not together with you love why why go, just as Miss Mu Zimei said:" you are in my eyes, I will be a bunch of fireworks, only open to you disappear from my eyes."

If Thomas Sabin there feel is" light", he from Trisha there feel is the" heavy"; if he is from Sabin who feels is a kind of freedom, he from Trisha there feel is a free; if Sabin will say to him: if you love me, does not have what I give up. Then the Trisha will said to him : if you loved me, you would have to give up. In fact, Thomas does to Teresa gave up almost everything, and who she is Thomas's" poetic memory"?

Teresa said:" between man and the dog 's love is like a song. This is a no conflict, no rending scenes, no other love." In fact, she conceived by love, between men and women is almost nonexistent, so she can only struggle between love and sex.

I'll take Mu Zimei as of the end of this article. Mu Zimei and the men crazy at the same time, did not forget to find a reason, it is because she previously received countless men hurt, so she is now insane is no ground for blame, why she did not dare to say, I don't need a reason, or I need a reason, that is itself will bring me happiness, I don't need another reason. If so, she is really out of the love and struggle